Dear Observer,
It has come to my attention that you have confused your role in my situation. You see, in any given situation there are the participants and the observers... and you have crossed a line. Without ANY confirmation you have reached a verdict as an observer which, for the record, is an assumption and while that may be deemed normal in today's society, you don't cross the line until you begin to act due to your personal judgements. I fully understand that you have an opinion, however, physically acting due to incomplete and partially inaccurate accusations lead you blindly and therefore will lead you to look like an ass.
It is not your situation to take into your own hands and even if you had been invited to participate and obviously handed parts of information, your role would still be limited as you would then be a third party. In this particular case, you were not invited and I do not appreciate your active judgements at this time. Although you may hide your direct judgements to my face, I am well aware of your standing and would advise you to remove yourself from my situation. What you don't seem to understand is that situations like this lead its own course and do not call for a hero, a villain, or any other catalyst for further drama, and in the end there is no actual gain for your forced involvement outside of feeding your own ego.
My suggestion? Live your OWN life and stay separated from mine, with in common slang would be to "mind your own business"
Sincerely,
The Participant
Thursday, April 30, 2009
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"...common slang would be to "mind your own business."
ReplyDeleteOr "check your ego" might work, hm? Either way, those honest summations are not used often enough to keep individuals in check. Then, the person who needs to be told is likely a little too far gone already. They see no line, and have decided their role in your life is perfectly natural and perhaps even a required element of their day.
They can't see themselves without you.
Is it due to infatuation? Love? Loneliness? Those are pretty powerful conditions not easily overcome.